It’s a very challenging time to blog right now
I have so much to say. Some of it is flippant – the funny life stuff we
all laugh at. But more of it is outrage, incredulousness and horror. I’ve written
to the latter many times, because I don’t believe that being silent is good during
this time of chaos for our world. We need to speak up and fight for what we
think is right.
But you’ve got to be ready to fight when you take on big issues, and
sometimes, your heart just isn’t capable of doing it. When you really put
yourself out there, it can cause a lot of anxiety, because you open yourself up
to attack. It’s not fun and you’ve got to brace yourself for a bumpy ride.
There are people out there who can be so horrible and it seems all they
want to do is rip you apart. They don’t know you. They don’t know your heart.
They couldn’t give two shits about you. They just want to have a go at you for
having a different opinion, or for being a liberal,
and they never stop.
Besides, when the fuck did it become a crime to be a liberal anyway? What’s wrong with
wanting to educate yourself on alternative viewpoints and to seek the best for all
the world’s people? Another fallout of 2016…
To change hearts and minds, to encourage people to be gentler and more
loving, to plea with the world for more tolerance and love are, what I consider,
good things. However right now, it
leaves you open to horrible ugliness. If you haven’t experienced it, I have to
tell you, it’s very unpleasant when you’re on the receiving end. Very very unpleasant.
We’re going through a time when it feels like everyone is aligned to a
side or an idea, and we’re incapable of having a discussion or hearing another
perspective, without being offensive or horrible to those on the opposing side.
This saddens me more than anything, because we are better than that.
As a blogger of many years, it’s disheartening. My goal with my blogs
has always been to do no harm. I hope to make people laugh, sometimes cry, but
I don’t want to make people hate.
Because, the truth is, I don’t hate anyone. How can I? The world is full of
magnificent people.
Oh sure there are arseholes too, but on my many adventures all over this
fine planet, the majority of people are magnificent. Of that I can assure you.
My only goal is to be one of the many voices trying to move our world
forward to the next level of consciousness. A world where the barriers come down,
the walls come down, fear stops being a dominant energy, and we all take
responsibility and ask: what can we ALL
do to stop this madness?
Ultimately, I hope the world gets to the point quickly where we can say
collectively: shit, that was close!
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| New haircuts |
But even writing flippant blogs is tough right now. I wanted to share a
story about the boys exercising their right to their own hairstyles for the
first time, with both choosing a mohawk/Mohican. As baldness is typically inherited
from the maternal side, and with every man in my family bald (plus Steve being
a nude nut), we agreed that they can have whatever hairstyle they want, because
soon there will be no hair to style.
The interesting thing is, a couple of weeks in, they no longer want to
spike their hair at all. We gave them the freedom of choice, they exercised it,
and now they’re done. That’s been one of my greatest parent lessons. If you don’t
resist their ideas and choices, they get over them very quickly.
But you see, that little story feels so un-important right now. It is
important though, because nice, easy, heart-warming stories have never been more important with the
deluge of sickening world events we seem to be constantly facing. We need the warm and fuzzys. What’s the point
of life otherwise?
Anyhoo, just wanted to share how I’ve been feeling if you’re wondering
why I haven’t blogged for a while. This time is having a very big impact on me.
I’m a happy, optimistic person most of the time. I believe goodness will win
the day. I believe that if you have a dream and commit to it 100 per cent, you
will get there. I believe humans are good essentially and we all want the same
thing. I believe we can come out the other side of this time better and more
loving.
Basically, I do believe that love will win the day – as poxy as that may
sound.
However, we’ve got some complicated times to get through. This is not an
easy time for planet earth and the challenges we face are not easy to overcome –
especially when so many are so fearful of others.
We can overcome though, and we
all have a role to play in getting there. We have entered the Golden Age of
true people power, so please, don’t think you can’t do anything to change the
course of our future. Right now, our combined voice is the only thing that will
make a difference.
Tough times, but I am a believer, are you? Let me know how this time is
impacting you? I know I’m not alone and perhaps if we can share with each other
how we’re feeling, we can better support each other through this time?
Yours, without the bollocks
Andrea
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