A year of honouring amazing friendships around the world
I’ve been on the road, travelling and living around the
world, since 1995. I’ve lived and worked in Melbourne, London, Boston, New
York, Sydney, Singapore, Phuket, Noosa, Singapore and now, Phuket again. Before
I left Australia in 1995, I had already built an amazing community of friends,
who I adore to this day. And since then, so many more magical people have come
into my life.
While this has been amazing, there is a hard part to it – missing the day-to-day moments. The sorrows, the joys, the
celebrations. I’ve tried really hard to stay connected and involved in the
lives of people who are special to me – social media is the greatest for this –
but still, you can’t help but miss important stuff.
On this journey of life, I have always believed it is
the people you get to meet that stands out as one of life’s greatest privileges.
They are definitely the family you choose.
I also think I’ve had a better run than most in the magnificence of the people who
have come into my life.
Time to celebrate
friendships
This year has been a wonderful opportunity to honour
some of those remarkable friendships. I’ve taken chances to jump on planes to
other parts of the world, just so I can say: hi, I love you and will always be grateful you are in my life – thank
you.
But there were two significant trips this year – a week
in Marrakech and my 30-year High School reunion. I know, I don’t look that
old….
Ahhh Marrakech
My trip to Marrakech was to celebrate two amazing
ladies’ birthdays – Nathalie and Elsa. I met Nathalie when I worked in London,
and along with Saskia, the three of us had too much fun together. We shared so
much of our lives during our late 20s, including introducing each other to many
more friends – one of which was the fabulous Elsa.
In July, we all gathered together at Nathalie’s
incredible villa outside Marrakech, overlooking the Atlas mountains. We were there to
celebrate both of their 45th birthdays, because they didn’t want to wait
until their 50th - too right. Nathalie's villa is stunningly beautiful, but
I can’t sing its praises in July – my word, that 45-degree Celsius weather made
this tropical living lady feel sick.
But it was awesome. Nathalie and Elsa, here we all are,
honouring you two magnificent Dames. I hope it brings tears to your eyes. Please
tell me how it makes you feel when you’ve watched it?
30 Year School
Reunion
After this, I went to Australia in October, to
celebrate my brother’s 50th – happy birthday Paul – and then to
Albury/Wodonga, the cross-border towns of my youth – for my 30-year School
Reunion. My best mate Dunny flew down from Bundaberg, and it was AWESOME seeing
so many people from school days.
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| The girls in my year were hilarious - and none of us have changed at all |
We had a magnificent year. Fun, free, silly and
hilarious, and while everyone couldn’t be there, it was amazing celebrating
with those who were. Sometimes it feels like no time goes by at all. We’re all
just a bit craggier these days…
And Rags, I stole this picture from you – hope it’s
OK? At this time, we are remembering those who have left us. Three so far. Let’s
all make sure we’re still around for our 40 year reunion OK? But a new bar
please! Bloody cranky bouncers at that one.
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| Remembering those who have left us |
More travel to do
I have more reconnecting
travel to do – Boston is top of the pops. London too. Let’s face it, we are long
overdue the opportunity for our boys to know their British roots!
But thank you to everyone around the world, for being my pals and seeming to be genuinely quite excited when I do show up. It really is appreciated and I love youse all.
So, if you’re reading this, give your pals a big
squeeze. Tell ‘em you love them. Honour who they are and what they bring to
your life. Friendship is awesome. It’s what makes the world go around, don’t
you think?
Yours, without the bollocks
Andrea
Thank you for reading my ramblings. My brain and heart are a work
in progress, always. I’d love a comment if it stirred any thoughts or feelings
and of course, please feel free to share it with anyone you know who might be
interested or entertained. I sure do appreciate it when you do. If you want to
connect, I'm on Twitter here, Google+ here, Instagram here, YouTube here, and Facebook too. I share loads of stuff, not just my own xxxxx
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